“I just didn’t have a clue,” Gyllenhaal said. ”There’s no way to prepare for the challenges, the immense joys, the surprises, the disappointments and the shocks,” she said. “Your heart just rips open. It’s amazing.”The couple wed in 2009 and their first child is named Ramona, 5.
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